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A few months ago I was invited to give a talk to a networking group on the basics of using social networking. When I arrived a few minutes early, several people had already arrived and were chatting amiably. My attention was drawn to an attractive woman who was talking animatedly, causing her colleague to laugh. Of course being me, I was immediately drawn to her energy and enthusiasm. Has that ever happened to you at a meeting, or a party?
I definitely wanted to meet her.
After introducing myself, we chatted for a few minutes and then she said something that completely floored me! This vivacious business woman mentioned that she networks with, and belongs to, no less than 20 business networking groups, including 11 chambers of commerce.
Holy Cow, Batman!!
Ladies and gentlemen, please meet Robin Benitez, ‘Networking Queen’ and VP of Sales for a unique and growing company called PreviewMe.TV
As I struggled to keep a straight face, that little voice in my head screamed, “How does she keep up with all that networking without going insane?!”
So I did what any curious entrepreneur would do — I interviewed Robin, determined to find out her secret. I had a feeling there would be other people who could benefit from her experience, knowledge and approach to networking for business.
Here’s what she had to say.
A native to the San Francisco Bay Area, Robin has built a long and successful career in sales through her friendly, solution-oriented and relationship-focused approach to clients.
You’ve heard that 90% of success is just showing up, and Robin is a perfect example of that. But since starting with PreviewMe.TV over 2 years ago, she has been doing more than just showing up. Robin has been building solid relationships with colleagues, clients, and new-found friends based on connecting others with what they need.
She also stepped into various leadership positions and steadily increasing awareness for herself, her company and her products.
Here are Robin’s 3 keys for networking success:
- Show up consistently. Consistency not only establishes visibility, it also signals reliability, stability, trust, and credibility.
- Don’t judge people by their appearance, company, or title. Many folks make the mistake of dismissing someone who doesn’t immediately ‘fit’ as a prospective customer. But you never know who that person might know. It can literally pay to take the time and invest in relationship building.
- Stay organized. Robin’s upbringing taught her how to prepare and stay organized. By planning her day the night before, she encounters few delays and distractions that might easily derail her business.
Organizing Your Networking Efforts
Her planning method involves gathering materials, updating her calendar, and literally planning her route for the day. This is essential for those days when she has 4 or 5 networking events on her schedule, plus customer appointments.
Here’s another strategy that Robin uses to stay organized that might surprise you: she keeps both an electronic calendar on her desktop at home (Outlook) AND a paper calendar that travels with her.
“Why don’t you use an electronic device?” I asked.
Well, it turns out our Networking Queen is a bit old fashioned and likes to see her entire schedule in one glance. It feels more secure to her. Being a visual person myself, I can totally relate!
Another unusual tactic Robin uses involves keeping her to-do list separate from her calendar. Why? She found that being able to see her to-do list at the same time as her calendar distracted her from efficiently planning and scheduling her busy life. Seeing that list pulled her attention away from the priorities of the day.
She syncs her computer schedule with her hard copy on a daily basis. Because she keeps everything up to date, this only takes a small amount of time.
Following Up – Where the Money Is
We’ve all been told that the key to profits is in the follow up. Having worked with clients who’ve struggled with this themselves, I was curious to find out how Robin manages this critical business activity.
“How do you follow up with all those people you meet when you’re networking so much?”
Here’s what Robin does: as part of her routine, she takes about 2 hours or less every evening to follow up with the new connections she made that day. This time of day works for her because it’s quiet and she can focus on what she’s doing.
For those of you who had the immediate thought, “Two flippin’ hours! There’s NO WAY I can do that!” (I know you did) Read on…
Typically, Robin will take each business card she received and review the note or action item she wrote on it. Next, she’ll go online and learn more about their business, product or service. Then she will send an appropriate email to that person that includes:
- A thank you or acknowledgement
- Something conversational pertaining to meeting that person
- Mention something complimentary about their business, product, service or website. It shows you care and makes people feel good. And this has to be authentic!
She does NOT include anything about her business, and does NOT ask them to take any kind of action – letting people follow up with her at their convenience. Robin has found this to be the most effective system for building relationships and trust; and as a result, she has grown her business dramatically!
Again, if you initially balked at hearing about the time and effort she takes in her follow up, just imagine what it feels like to be in communication with Robin. You’re acknowledged, respected, valued, and noticed. Isn’t that how you want your clients and customers to feel?
And what does Robin do with the business card — ‘cause ya just know its not sittin’ in a stack next to her computer, right?!
Well, it turns out she uses a card scan program to capture their contact information and keeps it in an ACT database. This tool, and please pay particular attention to this, is then used to schedule the next appropriate step for following up with prospects. Robin makes sure these tasks get plugged into her desktop calendar, which flags her in the evening when she knows she’ll be using her computer.
Whew!
To recap Robin’s keys to successful networking:
- Show up consistently
- Avoid judging people
- Stay organized
Final words of wisdom from Robin Benitez, the Networking Queen:
- Don’t take yourself so seriously.
- Have fun.
- Entertain and be entertained.
- Make a difference for people.
Thank you, Robin!!!!
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